A message of hope for my sickle cell community

My recent birthday prompted reflection on the progress we've made

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by Mary Shaniqua |

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I celebrated yet another birthday last week.

I love birthdays. As someone living with sickle cell disease and the difficulties it brings, I’ve learned that life is fickle. Therefore, it’s important to be grateful for every year and to celebrate the gift of life. A celebration doesn’t always have to be extravagant, but considering how much we sickle cell patients experience and overcome, sometimes a big celebration is appropriate.

Although we have a long way to go in terms of ensuring adequate sickle cell care is accessible to patients globally, the progress made in recent years is also worth celebrating.

When I was born, my parents were told that the life expectancy for sickle cell patients was about five years in Nigeria, and 10 years in the U.K., which is why my family remained in England. To have surpassed these milestones and now be in my mid-30s is a testament to the medical advancements that have been made in the past few decades. With potentially curative therapies now on the market, I’m trying to remain optimistic that this illness can be eradicated at some point in the future.

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My family and I are truly grateful for the quality of life I’ve been able to maintain, despite the hurdles of this illness. At times it can be a real struggle to see the silver lining when difficult symptoms are raging through my body and affecting my life plans and social calendar. I try my best to remain positive through it all.

How far we’ve come

So, as I begin another trip around the sun, I’d like to encourage all sickle cell patients and their loved ones to remain hopeful. Think about how far you’ve come. Think of all the progress you’ve made personally, as well as all the progress made in medicine and care. Think of the life you’ve lived so far. There may have been times when you thought you couldn’t go on, but you did, and now, here you are.

I want our community to understand how unstoppable we can be. I want us to be aware of the excellence we can achieve, the positive change we can deliver, and the equitable society we can build by sharing our experiences. The hardships we endure are never wasted. It can be emotionally strenuous to share the intimate details of our healthcare experiences, but know that none of it is in vain. Scattered across the globe are people who see and hear us, people who are using their skills and knowledge to create more treatment options and improve care access for us all.

I will continue to press on, too. My goal is to focus on the silver linings, not the gray clouds.

I truly hope that the frustrations I voiced in my previous column will be explored. Perhaps by my next birthday our community will be having serious conversations about the reality of curative therapies for sickle cell patients. Even with the progress that’s been made, it would always be better to be free of the shackles of this disease. (However, I do want to note that even if a therapy cures sickle cell, patients may still struggle with long-term side effects or lingering complications of the disease.)

I will continue the fight for adequate healthcare and treatment, hopefully bearing fruit for us all.


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Pius Emmanuel avatar

Pius Emmanuel

Wow... Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉 To you Mary! I am also a 36 years old SSC guy living in Nigeria! God will continue to keep you dear

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Victor avatar

Victor

May you live beyond expectations, keep basking shaniqua..
I also have a podcast where I try to do the same which you do, shed more light and help other people understand what we're really made of..
This is the link to my podcast please kindly help me share to as well, Happy birthday once again..
https://open.spotify.com/show/44vtcBkX9fjztJHTtLFj1p

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Nozzy

I recently celebrated my 40th birthday on August 27th, and I'm grateful to have reached this milestone despite living with sickle cell. Every day is a miracle, and I'm thankful for the advancements in technology and medical trials that have helped me come this far. As someone based in South Africa, I appreciate the dedicated doctors who have supported me throughout my journey. I've learned that sickle cell affects bone health, leading to brittle bones. To manage pain, I've found the following helpful:

- Drinking twice the recommended water intake
- Taking hydroxyurea
- Eating plenty of fruits, beets, and greens
- Limiting sugar, smoking, and alcohol consumption
- Engaging in regular exercise

While I still rely on oral morphine every other day (which I know isn't ideal for my kidneys), I'm grateful to have found ways to reduce my pain. Living without a spleen adds another layer of complexity, but I'm thankful for my body's resilience. I hope sharing my experiences can help others living with sickle cell."

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Adenle MM avatar

Adenle MM

I'm still battling with my own sickle cell disease in fact I'm currently suffering from osteomyelitis and AVN. How did you guys get over it

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Adenike Saliu avatar

Adenike Saliu

Happy birthday dear! You will live long in sound health and mind to fulfil your destiny and purpose in life. God is sufficient for you. I am also a genotype SC and a nurse by profession. I will be 50 years in November by God's grace. He has been Awesome, gracious and compassionate in my life, so will He in yours too. Please feel free to reach out anytime. Many happy returns,cheers!

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